Alright, picking the wedding party can be so tricky. And such a pain. ESPECIALLY, if your a really sensitive person to other people's feelings and if you hurt them just a little bit you feel like lucifer bride reeking havoc on your peeps. SO, here are some thoughts on the wedding party selections:
1) Remember that everything really will be A-OKAY. You can't have 50,000 bridesmaids chilling up there watching you get hitched. People have to get cut, thats simply how it is. So, as a bride, GET OVER IT. The sooner you grow a thick skin, the better.
2) Most of the time, people will understand. Especially if it seems like everyone you say hey to is getting married. People get that its a hard decision. And if they are reasonably thinking people, they completely understand.
3) DON'T FORGET TO TELL YOUR OWN SISTER SHE IS A BRIDESMAID. just sayin.
4) For the love that is good, pick a bridesmaids dress that is reasonably priced. I mean come on, your bridesmaids don't want to put a down payment on a dress they will only wear once. (but you could SO cut it off and wear it again! -(favorite quote from 27 Dresses))
5) PLEASE, PLEASE, don't text your friends, "hey grl, wnt to b in my wdding?" God gave you a mouth. use it. (Well I wrote letters as a christmas/will you be in my wedding doodad..just don't text)
6)Your bridesmaids are your friends, not your servants. Naturally, they will want to help, but don't make them wash your feet or anything.
I think I have exhausted this topic. So long savvy brides!
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